Lose Weight

To begin this article I must start with it’s conclusion.

The decision for a woman to lose her extra childbearing weight is between her doctor and herself.

Even at that, the decision is ultimately up to the woman alone. She only can decide whether or not she is willing to go through the process (and stress) of losing extra pregnancy weight.

However, the woman’s decision is usually made from many factors, factors which will encourage or discourage her in this very personal decision.

One of the main factors in a woman’s life is her husband. At this point I want to encourage husbands to be supportive of their wives who has bared life inside her body.

Children are produced though both the woman’s egg and man*s sperm, this make the child as much a part of the man as it is the woman’s. It is however the woman who has the ability to protect the new life by, it being nestled in the center core of her body.

In order for this nestling to remain and be completed, it must take the woman’s body through some journeys of changes. Changes which includes but are not limited to the physical, mental emotional and hormonal sides of the woman.

It is physical-weight gain that most woman find to be the biggest drama of their afterbirth bodies.
Mainly due to today*s society of thin bodies being better bodies.

However we know that how thin a woman is has nothing to do with how great her body is! I want to personally challenge and encourage men who have wives with new bodies; as the result of bringing forth new life. Beginning with:

RESPECT: Small word, Big Results! To say it quite plainly, husbands RESPECT your wives for bringing forth new life, that the world may go forward! Keep in mind that this is an accomplishment you will never have the pleasure of experiencing.
To help you along, here is a 10 pointer guideline.

1.) The only time to call your wife out of her name is to call her a loving name. Sweety Cakes, Honey Bun ect. is appropriate.

Note: “My Pretty Fat Piggy.” Is NOT appropriate!

2.) Often express to her how grateful you are, that she bared the children which the two of you together created.

3.) Be supportive of her emotional state, especially if she is a new mom, as she may be going through postpartum.

4.) Only speak positively about her new body. Don’t make comments such as these, “You weren*t this size when I married you.” “I bet you couldn’t fit into your wedding dress now.” “How much did you weigh when we were married?”

5.) Respect, Enjoy and Treasure your wife’s new body! With a new look, your intimate moments can become intimate encounters! Explore, ENJOY and I repeat RESPECT!

6.) a. Always tell her, “I Love You!”

b. Always show her your love.

c. Always do what make her to KNOW you love her!

7.) Refrain from placing compliments on another woman, be it a woman on television or a woman dining at the table across from you.

8.) Knowledge, know that your wife isn’t going to always look and dress as she did before her pregnancy. She now has a baby or babies who demand her time and attention, this takes away from the time she would usually spend on herself. A compassionate husband would understand this and still be able to compliment their wife.

9.) If ever, you wonder about something being appropriate to do or say, reflect on this question.
“Does this fall under RESPECT?”
If you know it does not, then don’t do or say it.
If it does, then do, do and say it.

10.) Honor your wife for being your wife and know that “her price is far above rubies”

In conclusion, the decision for a woman to lose her extra childbearing weight is between her doctor and herself.
Even at that, the decision is ultimately up to the woman alone.

By: Jacqueline Ennis

(c) Jacqueline Ennis 2005 - http://www.bodybybaby.NET

Jacqueline Ennis Publisher of Body By Baby

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There are literally thousands of self improvement books, courses and
programs on the market at any given time, with a wide price range
and an even wider range of promises.

Before you invest a dime there are four critically important questions
you must consider when trying to decide which information is right
for you.

As someone who enjoys the GROWTH part of the “Self Growth Process”
I have invested in my fare share of self growth information programs.

Over the years I have found that there are four very important
questions to ask first to ensure that I receive the most
beneficial information for my particular problem.

Here they are in order:

1) Is the program or course SPECIFIC to your needs for solving
the problem?

It is one thing to spend hours and hours searching the Internet
for free information which offers a rather broad perspective on a
wide range of topics. You will find that narrowing your focus
allows you to pinpoint exactly what you are looking for.

For Example:

A program on how to break bad habits or one on self hypnosis for
rapid weight loss or to quit smoking, speaks directly to the
specific area and usually offers some kind of step by step
detail, which saves lots of time and helps you reach your goals
faster.

2) Who is the person presenting the information, how many people
has he/she helped and is it documented? (I realize this is really
three questions, but I think you see where I’m going.)

Most times I’m not just looking for information, I’m looking for
someone to teach me specific information through a step by step
system that has worked for people just like me, who are dealing
with the same problem.

I don’t care much about credentials, although seeing some
advanced study background is comforting, it means less to me
than proven results.

3) Does the program come with a money back guarantee?

Like I said, I invest in a lot of information, but it doesn’t just
sit on the shelf and collect dust. I apply it, then measure my
results.

If it inspires me to grow, I keep it. If not, it gets
sent back along with my suggestions on how I think the product
could be improved.

I have come to realize that not every program works for every
person so having a money back guarantee is very important.
With a money back guarantee you are never at risk of being stuck
with a program that didn’t work for you. Look for at least 90
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4) Is there on going support and updates?

It is always nice to find a good newsletter that you enjoy
reading. Often times you will come across an inspiring story
that will keep you motivated to press on and achieve your goals.

Investing in yourself is a major key to personal growth. Invest
wisely by considering these four simple questions before you lay
down your hard earned money. The information you finally decide
on will have a more direct impact in your life.

(c) Andy Thompson - All Rights reserved.

Andy Thompson is a writer who enjoys the GROWTH part of the
Self Growth Process. His articles can be found in many
self-improvement e-zines on the Internet. Andy publishes
a Bad Habit Breaking 101 Newsletter and he recomends
Lee Milteer’s Proven 21 Day Habit Busting program, you can
read more about them both at http://www.BadHabitBreaking101.com

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